Thursday, December 12, 2019

9 Qualities You Need to Have to Call Yourself Mature

Maturity comes from life experiences. Somebody’s age does not signify his/her maturity. Think about it: just because someone has lived longer than you, does not mean they have done better things in their lives and learned valuable lessons.


1. Compassion for oneself and others.

We get so busy in our own lives and problems that we forget to look at the bigger picture that is this beautiful life. Or sometimes we have compassion for everyone around us but we just can't forget that one thing we did eons ago. Help yourself first so you can help those around you.




 2. Having control of your own emotions

Instead of getting angry easily at someone else over something that they do, a mature person would be quick to keep their emotions in check. Being mature means that you will be less likely to be overwhelmed by your own emotions and react in a destructive manner.




 3. You’re able to accept yourself for who you are.

It is not easy to accept yourself as you are, especially when others keep telling you that you should change. But when you are mature, you embrace who you are and you are confident about yourself. You will feel comfortable with yourself instead of feeling inferior and wanting to please others by being someone you are not.


 4. Taking responsibility for yourself and your actions

People make choices every day and those choices come with consequences. Someone who is mature will take accountability for their actions. You are mature when you actively take care of yourself, your happiness, and the things that get in your way because of your choices.




5. Realizing how much you don’t know

A person cannot possibly know everything, but it takes maturity for someone to realize that there is a lot that they do not know. If you are mature, you will put aside your pride and be willing to learn, even from someone who is younger than you.


6. Being aware and considerate of others.

Having compassion is part of being mature. You will think of other people instead of always putting your interests first. Sacrificing for others comes first before pursuing your own desires. When other people are successful, you will celebrate rather than be jealous of them.




7. Being humble and modest.

If you are a mature person, you will not let any success go to your head. You will treat people fairly and respectfully no matter what. And you won’t feel the need to promote yourself above others.


8. Showing flexibility.

Things don’t always go as planned and to be mature, you will need to be able to adapt to situations and think on your feet. Being stubborn, rigid, sulking, and pointing fingers is only something that immature people do.




9. Knowing there is always room to grow and improve

Being mature means you will never be complacent and think that you’re already perfect or too old to grow. You’d believe that there is always room for improvement. Life is about learning and you can always strive to be a better version of yourself.



Bonus: 10. Being open-minded and not judgmental

You will be open to see things from new perspectives and understand what it’s like being in other people’s shoes. Rather than labeling people who are different from you, you will be willing to try to see where they’re coming from and bridge the gap between you and them.

Do you have any quality that makes you mature person?

by Oleg Guta